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Identity Crisis


At one point in your life.You will have to find an answer to this question "Who Are You"?.The more important question is do you really have an answer for this.Let's explore.

Every time when we are asked this question.The answer we come up is our job, designation, passion.But, Are these all the right answers is the question.?

I don't think all these are the right answers.They might be a lot of people like you who do the same job, have the same designation and similar passion.But, What is your identity which can make you unique and is it important to be unique?

I feel it is not important to be unique.Identity is not a must have in our life.The most important thing in your life is to be satisfied.We do fight for identity i.e promotion from associate to senior associate.The fight for identity doesn't stop there it keeps ruining happiness and your life.

We don't really want a life to be satisfied.We want it to be better every single day and strive hard.In return, We get disappointed when you don't achieve what you aimed for.

Let's all stop fighting for the identity for superiority instead focus on self to keep improving and don't worry about striving for identity.Your identity will stay along :).

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  1. Good to see this man. Keep it up. :)

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  2. Good one I want to add here, every person has unique skills just they need to identify and ignite that passion and by default through that passion a person identification is made.

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